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The Mel Robbins Podcast

The Best Relationship Advice No One Ever Told You

The Mel Robbins Podcast

SiriusXM Podcasts

Relationships, Education, Society & Culture, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.715.3K Ratings

🗓️ 27 May 2024

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, you’ll learn the truth about relationships that no one ever tells you. Today, Mel and her husband Chris, who have been together for 30 years, are answering your biggest relationship questions and giving you their secret to a happy relationship. Packed with fresh advice you never saw coming, Mel and Chris talk about how they learned these lessons the hard way, and share the relationship truths they wished they knew sooner to create a healthy romantic relationship. Mel and Chris break down their relationship truths into small, actionable things you can do to make your relationship stronger today.  These are the real conversations about love, resentment, and growth that most couples avoid. After today, you will know: How to handle resentment before it ruins your relationship. What to do when one of you is growing and the other isn’t. How to deal with pressure from your family and outside opinions. The small habits that make relationships last. The biggest mistake couples make without realizing it. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or somewhere in between, this episode will change how you think about love. For more resources, click here for the podcast episode page. Get a copy of Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory here. If you liked this episode, you’ll like hearing another episode from Mel and Chris: How To Create Better Relationships: 6 Surprising Lessons From 28 Years Of Marriage Connect with Mel: Watch the episodes on YouTube Get Mel’s new book, The Let Them Theory Follow Mel on Instagram The Mel Robbins Podcast Instagram Mel's TikTok Sign up for Mel’s personal letter Subscribe to SiriusXM Podcasts+ on Apple Podcasts to listen to ad-free new episodes Disclaimer

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast.

0:04.8

I am so glad that you're here with me today.

0:10.6

It is always such an honor to get to spend some time with you and I want to start

0:14.0

by acknowledging you for choosing to listen or watch something that is going to help you create a better

0:19.2

life. I think that's just super cool that you're taking time for yourself and it's a real honor to spend that time with you.

0:25.3

And if you're brand new to the Mel Robbins podcast, welcome to the family.

0:28.7

I'm Mel and I'm an omission to empower and inspire you with tools and the expert resources that you need to create a better life.

0:35.8

And today, you and I are going to talk about romantic relationships.

0:40.3

I mean, let's face it, romantic relationships are not only a critically important part of

0:46.7

creating a meaningful and profound life but they can be so complicated.

0:52.8

And just a couple months ago, I stumbled upon this concept.

0:56.9

It's incredible.

0:58.2

It's called the four levels of a relationship.

1:02.1

And it literally blew my mind and you need to learn this.

1:06.7

The four levels are relevant, whether you're single like so many of my friends or two of our

1:12.1

adult children are single or they're also

1:14.4

relevant whether you're in a relationship and you're not sure is this the right

1:18.2

person is this going to work out the four levels are going to blow your mind and if you're married like me you need to know these levels because you just assume that your relationship is going to go to the distance.

1:30.0

Well, just because you have a ring on your finger or the person sleeps next to you every single night in bed,

1:35.0

that doesn't mean it's going to last.

1:37.0

And if you don't know what level you're on, it's not going to last.

1:41.0

In fact, the most dangerous mistake that you can make in a relationship

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