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Hi ladies so I just baby. I'm reaching out to see if you guys possibly have any advice for me and my similar situation.

Here's my story and I apologize in advance for it being long.

My birth giver was a bit careless in her mid to 18s and she had two children by the time she turned 18. The financial burden of two

infants was left to my grandma while she was still financially responsible for her two children.

My grandma told my mom she needed to do something to be able to take care of us. Her idea was to join the Navy. The story I heard

was that the recruiter she was working with didn't want to do the paperwork stating she had two children.

So she signed over custody of us to my grandma, took off to San Diego for boot camp and never looked back.

During her time in California, she met a Navy guy and found herself pregnant again, so they got

married and started her own family having two children with him.

My grandma never took my birth giver for a child support so growing up it was financially hard on this.

I remember during elementary school we took a couple road trips from Colorado to California to be able to spend time with her.

The last road trip we took to

Cali the summer between our third and fourth grade I begged my grandma to let me stay

and live with my mom. I believe that since I was the youngest my mom had an easier time

manipulating me.

She would say I'd be better off with her and my grandma's keeping me from living with her.

As much as she knew it, it would break her. My grandma let us stay. My older sister is my

protector so she stayed too during the

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