Welcome back. We're here still in the best of series. And today we're talking about simple life hacks that actually move the needle. Not the cute tips that waste time, but the small shifts that change how you think, how you connect, and how you live. If you've been feeling stretched

thin or pulled in 10 different directions, this episode will help you cut the noise, get focused,

and build habits that actually matter. You'll hear from the brilliant Kendra Adachi on choosing

what really matters and becoming a genius at that, Plus, why starting small is the smartest way to

build a life you love. We will hear from the ever-wise Eric Barker, who's going to break down

practical strategies for investing in deeper, more meaningful relationships instead of staying stuck

in surface-level connections. And pastor to so many, Mark Patterson, who's going to bring it home

with the power of a daily gratitude habit and why it rewires your mind for more than you think.

These clips are going to give you the playbook. Before we get started, I do want to tell you.

Okay, let's dive in first with Kendra. I just really have such a deep, deep desire for women to recognize.

Not only can you not do all of those things, no one is able to do all those things.

And so rather than be like, well, I can't do anything and give up or keep trying harder at the things that you actually don't really care about, choose what matters. Be a genius about that. Care about that. Let it matter. Let it matter. Care about it. Put effort into it. We think that putting effort into something makes us not fake

somehow trying at something that matters to us is somehow like contradictory to being

vulnerable and authentic and real because vulnerable, authentic real people are falling apart.

And it's like, that's not the case. That's just not the case.

And it just breaks my heart that so many of us are trying so hard in the wrong direction.

And that's why we're all so tired. And so that's why I wrote the lazy genius way because I'm like,

you guys, let's stop being so tired. Let's have energy about things that matter to us. And let's start caring about the things that matter to us and letting the things that don't matter. Let other people care about those. We can all care about our different things and not have to compare our lives and how we're choosing to live them. we're on some sort of continuum of womanhood.

That's not how this works. We're on a team, man. We're all together. So let's just like be together.

Girl, I love it. It's been interesting to watch through, you know, this world we're living in now.

It's been so interesting for me to watch everyone go, I don't want to go back to

life the way it was before because I realized I was saying yes to all of these things I never wanted

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