The Attachment Styles Episode with Rikki Cloos
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 29 March 2022
⏱️ 62 minutes
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Summary
On this episode, I’m joined by Rikki Cloos (@anxiousheartsguide) to discuss the basics of attachment theory. We learn how our attachment styles are shaped, if we can change attachment styles, how our style shows up in our dating lives and our relationships, how to navigate your partner’s attachment style, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:07.6 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:12.5 | I feel like last week was a million years long that I was so excited when it was Wednesday |
| 0:17.8 | and then it was Thursday and then it got to Friday and I actually felt |
| 0:21.1 | really accomplished for making it through the week and I went into the weekend with the mindset |
| 0:26.3 | of like wow it is the weekend and I am going to do everything in my power to enjoy it and I did |
| 0:32.1 | Jake was a really big trooper we did not one but triple dates on Saturday. We got brunch with two of my |
| 0:41.3 | best friends from college and their boyfriends, and that was super fun. And then on Saturday night, |
| 0:46.5 | we had two of my best childhood friends who are actually my camp friends. Shout out Kenmont Kenwood. |
| 0:53.5 | We had everyone come over to my apartment |
| 0:55.2 | and we made tons of snacks and like appetizers and cocktails. We all made mescal cocktails, which |
| 1:03.0 | ended up being amazing. But it was really cool because these are like two of my lifelong friends. |
| 1:07.3 | And this was actually the first time that the six of us had hung out together. it was really awesome it was really special and great and um i also got to go out and film |
| 1:17.5 | for my new snapchat show which launched on saturday backing up just giving some context if you go |
| 1:24.9 | on snapchat and type in screening for love and hit subscribe every |
| 1:28.7 | week or even twice a week sometimes, you will see me out on the streets of New York City asking |
| 1:34.2 | questions about dating to people. And the first round was so fun. I filmed in Washington Square |
| 1:40.4 | Park, which was a kind of nice little full circle moment because that's where I filmed a dump or deal when I worked at Hinge. And I was asking people about what happens when the check comes at the end of the first date. Do they want to split it? Do they want their date to pay for it? What's the deal with that? We asked, what's the biggest law you've ever told on your dating app profile? There was a lot. I think every single guy answered that they lied about their height, which was hilarious. |
| 2:03.8 | And not surprising, but there were some wild stories in there. |
| 2:08.9 | And that launched on Saturday. |
| 2:10.4 | And it's so fun and so exciting. |
| 2:12.6 | So definitely go to Snapchat and type in Screening love and hit subscribe and you can also follow |
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