First Dates, Situationships, Friends with Exes & More. Solo Q&A
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 24 March 2022
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
On this solo Q&A I answer listener questions about what makes a good date, rekindling an old situationship, being friends with an ex after ending on good terms, not hearing back from someone after telling them how you feel, what to do if you're always texting first, if they're still active on dating apps after telling you they like you, when to follow up, and how to know if you should stay or go.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:08.3 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:13.1 | So word on the street, and I know we all live on different streets, but word on my street is that you guys actually liked the solo episode, which made me feel really warm and fuzzy |
| 0:22.3 | inside. So thank you for that positive feedback. But yeah, I was really nervous to do that. |
| 0:27.4 | It's something I haven't done before. And I think it's one of those things where the longer |
| 0:30.9 | you put it off, the scarier and scarier it becomes to actually do it, even if it's not that |
| 0:36.9 | scary of a thing. |
| 0:38.3 | It reminds me of this meme that I saw yesterday. |
| 0:41.3 | I was a tweet. |
| 0:42.4 | When did tweets just become memes? |
| 0:43.9 | It's really funny how that happened. |
| 0:46.3 | But it was, I'm sorry, I haven't replied to your email, but I glanced at it, vowed to deal with it later. |
| 0:52.1 | And now the very thought of even opening it fills me with |
| 0:54.8 | crippling dread um that's kind of how I felt about doing a solo episode where it was just something I'd |
| 0:59.6 | put off for so long and the thought of even doing it I was like how am I going to do this like I don't |
| 1:05.0 | know how to do this I have never done this I'm never going to do it and it was like actually not that |
| 1:09.9 | big of a deal it was kind of like what I do most of the time, just talking to myself a little bit more |
| 1:17.0 | and trying to be maybe a little more structured because there wasn't anyone to ask me |
| 1:21.4 | questions. |
| 1:22.1 | So we're back with solo episode number two. |
| 1:25.7 | I posted an AMA last Friday on the Instagram story. Reminder |
| 1:30.8 | if you're not following seeing other people on Instagram, what are you doing? Go follow seeing |
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