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There is a moment that happens after you've been hurt enough times. Right? You feel your shoulders

tighten, your jaw clinch, your hearts pull back just a little further than

what it did before and then you think this is how i survive if i stay hard nothing can break me right

so you build walls and you sharpen your edges, and you learn to live

behind glass. And it works for a while. Until one day you realize nothing is getting in anymore.

Not the pain, but also not the warmth, not the hurt, not the love.

You're safe. You're alone. I'm Chad Lawson and let's calm it down in three, two, one. Here's what no one tells you about armor. It protects you from the world,

absolutely, but it also separates you from it. You stop letting people hurt you, but you also

stop letting them reach you. Every conversation becomes a little careful

transaction, right? Every connection has a ceiling. Every moment of tenderness is met with, oh, that's

suss. Because you've learned soft equals weak, open equals unsafe, vulnerable equals pain.

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