The Art of Belonging

Conversations with Dr. Jennifer

Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health, Self-improvement, Sexuality

4.4 • 978 Ratings

🗓️ 9 December 2019

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

In an interview for the Love Rice podcast series from Bloom for Women, Dr. Finlayson-Fife talks about how to belong to others as well as ourselves. She also explains how reconciling these tensions is related to our spiritual development. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on February 16th, 2017. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at bloomforwomen.com.

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0:00.0	Hi, my name is Ruby, and I'm Dr. Jennifer Finlason-Fife's assistant, and you're listening to the Dr. Finlason-Fife podcast archive. The podcast you'll be listening to today is called The Art of Belonging, originally produced and published by the Love Rice
0:15.3	Podcast. Welcome and we hope you enjoy this episode.
0:20.3	So you guys are Love Rice audience audience you are all about digging and discovering new ways of
0:26.0	understanding and making sense of our worlds which is why I think you'll really sink into the
0:32.0	greatness of this interview with Dr. Finlayson 5.
0:34.5	I mean, editing it, I've listened to it probably 5 million times, but I love it.
0:40.5	There's so many good things here.
0:41.8	So we're going to talk about one of her formulas for creating equal partnerships in our relationships.
0:48.0	Baa! Right? So we'll talk in detail about how to make room for two whole people.
0:55.8	Well, because last time we talked, I guess, where we ended was, this is what I wrote down, I said,
1:08.8	we ended where we in a relationship we're going blind to some red flags from our partner and we because we weren't ready to face what it was it was really in front of us
1:18.8	Because we wanted to keep
1:20.8	Whatever picture alive the picture alive whatever that was for us and we talked about betraying ourselves
1:27.5	and I thought a lot about that and I looked back at my own life and thought how have I betrayed myself and the list is so long.
1:36.0	You know and it's really cool to be in the place where I'm at right now because I really feel like I'm waking up to that. That awareness that I had
1:46.1	betrayed myself and now I want to not do that ever again. Yes.
1:53.0	So I want to develop my identity.
1:54.4	So let's kind of move into that direction.
1:56.5	How do we, I mean, the first thing I thought of was,
1:59.4	how do I trust me?
2:00.3	I mean, how do we develop trust in ourselves when the voices around us can be so different?
2:07.3	Yeah well I think you know as it one of my favorite scriptural references is the truth sets you free and it's a favorite because oftentimes what is a part of our self-suppression is a false picture of ourselves
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