Betrayal Trauma Part 2

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Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife

Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health, Self-improvement, Sexuality

4.4 • 978 Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2019

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, Bloom for Women interviews Dr. Finlayson-Fife as part of its Love Rice Podcast series. This is a continuation of the discussion that was begun in part 1. The topic of this conversation is "betrayal trauma" and overcoming the impact of infidelity and other forms of dishonesty in intimate relationships. To learn more about Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s work, visit our Website, check out our Course Page, and take a look at our upcoming Events. You can also follow Dr. Finlayson-Fife on Instagram or join her FREE Facebook Group for greater access to her insights. www.Finlayson-Fife.com This episode was originally aired on June 1st 2016. You can also listen to this episode on Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, and Stitcher. Love Rice is a Bloom podcast. Bloom is a digital community providing specialized therapy and online courses for women healing from the trauma of infidelity. Learn more at Bloomforwomen.Com.

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0:00.0	Hi, my name is Ruby, and I'm Dr. Jennifer Finlason Fife's assistant, and you're
0:05.3	listening to the Dr Finlason Fife podcast Archive. The episode that you'll be
0:10.5	listening to today is called Betrayal Trauma Part 2, originally produced
0:15.8	and published by the Love Rice Podcast.
0:18.8	Welcome and we hope you enjoy this episode.
0:21.1	Now a little recap of last week's part one.
0:27.5	We talked about betrayal, sex, trauma, and the bathroom theory, and how sometimes we go round and round in certain patterns as individuals and also in relationships and that keeps us stuck.
0:40.0	You know doing the same stuff over and over again and not quite getting the
0:44.7	traction or the grip that we really need to progress. We will depend on the
0:51.0	validation we get from our respective roles to actually under-function in our individual development.
0:59.0	And when that gets ruptured, it's extremely disorienting it can be
1:04.3	yeah changes you forever changes you forever and what you do with it is extremely
1:10.4	important in terms of whether or not it kills you or it makes you stronger.
1:15.0	That is sex therapist Dr. Jennifer Finlayson Fife talking about a crossroads
1:22.0	and how the very normal tendency to you know rely on our
1:25.6	partners for helping us feel important turns into a roadblock.
1:31.8	It's not a fair conceptualization of men or women, sexuality or of their strength.
1:37.9	And it's a cultural validation of a very normal human dependency that we do best to grow out of.
1:47.4	So it's a way of kind of culturally validating our underdevelopment as people.
1:51.6	Next, Dr. Finlayson Fife gives us another way of looking at the conflict we talked about last week.
2:00.0	So when some kind of betrayal or a sexual issue comes up, it seems to me that the conflict, this
2:07.8	conflict between partners is magnified.
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