The goal when you said, I do, or one day say I do, is not to fall asleep every night

next to each other. It's to daily drown in love. Yes, there are seasons in life, but if love

is not going to fail, love better be a day right way. Let me say it as directly as I know how.

The person you love the most should always cost you the most.

Walls around your heart before marriage keep the wrong people for messing with your heart.

But walls around your heart during marriage keep the right person from stewarding.

What's up everybody? Welcome to the Leaders Cut. Happy Valentine's week for those of you who are

celebrating it this week with someone you love, and for those who are in a season of waiting and preparation, happy Valentine's week.

Way to save yourself, prepare yourself for that which the Lord may have in store for you.

And so as we talk today, I understand that this episode could seem like it's only for married people.

But as I typically say, whenever we talk about marriage issues, the wisest people in the room are the ones

studying marriage long before they get married. So that's you. I love that the singles

episode popped off. That's great. I'm glad it helped a lot of people. But honestly,

and it's not a number I'll ever be able to see, I'm far more excited when a number of savage singles really dive in to marriage episodes.

So because it's that time of year, it's just a good time for us to talk about some of these things.

Because to be honest, I don't probably give enough time to talk about such important issues throughout the

year. So let's pray, no matter married, single, recently divorced, lady in waiting, no matter

where you are, let's pray, let's open up our hearts,

and ask the Holy Spirit to speak

wherever he wants to speak to each one of us.

Holy Spirit, we don't know Jack.

We enter this conversation as learners,

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