Why are we filming this episode?

I think the enemy uses this specific topic to put a wedge in, and I feel like this is one of the biggest reasons why people leave and cheat and grass is green on the other side because we don't understand that the enemy is attacking this to keep us away from a fuller intimacy package of our marriage. And what would it look like if God got more involved in your sex life and your marriage?

Because to me, when I think about godly sex life, I think about thriving, I think about healthy,

I think about very satisfying and growing. So what if some of the things we've seen get in the way of that kind of sex life?

And so we both have to be able to say, hey, we're going to learn through this process.

Exactly. I know that I don't know everything and I'm never going to know everything, but I want to

learn with you. For some, maybe they need to snap a cold streak for others. Maybe they need to

step into new things.

And some may just need a clean start, you know?

That's great.

Have the maybe conversations you should have had to start.

Really good.

The whole thing.

What's up everybody?

Welcome to the Leaders Cut and you can already tell.

I have my beautiful bride, my best friend on planet Earth with me. It's not that you hate doing this. It's not necessarily your favorite thing to do. So I always love when you agree to sit down with me. So don't act like you're, don don't be giving me that face you just know this

this is an issue what we're talking about today is something that we see come up in marriages a lot

and i know i know you well enough to know after 25 years of marriage and 27 of being together

i know when you feel strongly enough about something to come sit with me, that it really

is a big deal.

And so I hope they understand this is not how you typically roll, but because of this

discussion, you're always telling me, we need to talk about this more.

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