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The Overwhelmed Brain

The abuse victim's perspective - Step-parents and step-children - When honoring yourself leads to loneliness

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2017

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

Why don't abuse victims leave the relationship? In this first segment I talk about the perspective of the abuse victim and no matter how much sense it makes to us for them to leave the abuser, it's an entirely different reality for the victim. In segment two I tackle the dynamics of step-children and how step-parents can enter a family and be more of a friend than a parent to gain trust and respect from the children. During the close I address what happens when you honor yourself. Who you thought were friends might disappear from your life but there's so much more to gain. Get out of emotional abuse with the M.E.A.N. workbook: https://theoverwhelmedbrain.com/mean/

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0:00.0

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0:42.8

Are you annoyed by affirmations?

0:45.0

Are you tired of that same old rehashed personal growth advice that all seems to boil down to?

0:51.7

Think positively and all your problems will go away.

0:55.7

If affirmations feel like lies and positive thinking feels like denial, then I want you

1:01.0

to get ready.

1:02.2

The overwhelmed brain is here to help you create the life you want now. Hello, this is Paul Kolyani. Welcome to the overwhelmed brain. I am your host personal empowerment coach.

1:25.4

I already said Paul Kolyani. I'm here to help you increase your emotional intelligence,

1:31.0

strengthen your self-worth and self-esteem, and empower you so that you can

1:34.9

make decisions that are right for you.

1:37.2

Everything I talk about on this show is my personal opinion and is meant for information

1:40.6

on educational purposes only.

1:42.8

Always consult a physician before making any changes to your medical treatment.

1:47.2

All right, well, I am back from a month long, I'm going to call it a fun slash recreational slash work trip.

1:57.4

I went to New Hampshire and visited my family, my girlfriend and I and her son and we got to stay with family and stay apart from

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