So I remember when they first started dating, right?

After our first date, right?

And then, like after the first date already, we went back home,

you went back home, I went back home, I dropped you off, and then we were talking on the phone.

Remember that? For how many hours? The five stages of a relationship that every couple needs to know.

You see, one of the things that I noticed, especially with my students, right, that when they

have, when they're in a relationship, right, they have a spouse, they have a boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, and wife, that when one party is growing and the other party's not, very often you have problems, right?

They're not going through these stages together sometimes. I notice that one of the things I teach, I say this, this you only be as successful as your spouse

allows you to be and it's very very true because if you want to do one thing

and your spouse once another you've got conflict so all the five stages that we

want to talk about but also from our own experience right what we've gone

through as a couple now we've been together 13 years, 13 years.

So the first stage, just like most couples,

how they fall in love, maybe it's love for sight, right?

Right? Or maybe it's the last, right, you're passionate.

That's called the attraction stage, right?

During that stage

that all you can think about is that person yes right so I remember when it first

started dating right after our first date right and then like after the first date already

we we went back home you went back home I went back home dropped you off, and then we were talking on the phone.

Remember that?

For how many hours?

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