So much of being married is just trying to figure out what it means to love, right?

To live out the love that you profess on your wedding day, right?

We have this thing we say is that on your wedding day, you say, I do and you commit to a covenant,

but the rest of your life, the rest of your marriage is figuring out what covenant means,

figuring out what love actually means.

And so it's one thing to say, I love you, right?

But it's another to know what that means to you specifically and how to love you in ways that

you'll feel it the most clearly.

Right? It's getting that knowledge of each other and ourselves and knowing how to love each

other well because we know each other and understand each other. Right. Right. So that's what we

discussing today is just that. It's one thing to say, I love you, but it's another to know how to do

that and we'll get into the particulars of just that. Welcome to the fierce marriage podcast where

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So it's interesting. I feel like you and I experience love different ways depending on

the season of life that we're in. Right. I think when you and I were dating,

we expressed our emotions and feelings and love differently maybe.

So when we were engaged and then newly married without kids, I would say we loved each other,

not worse off, but differently. We had more time to express different things.

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