Okay, so this week we're going to try to tackle one of the hardest questions

I believe that we receive from our readers, which is simply this, what do I do if my husband or my wife

is not trying? They're not engaged. I try to have conversations with them. They're not listening. They're

not talking back. What do I do? Yeah, there's a lot of different things that kind of feed into this,

right? So you may find yourself at one end of the spectrum saying, yeah, I can kind of see this

and we deal with a little bit or maybe you're right in the middle of it and you're just ready to

be done on all levels because you feel like you've tried everything and it's just not, it's just like

hitting your head against a brick wall. So yeah, we're going to tackle that this week. I don't know

that we'll get to the bottom of it. I do think we can offer some hope. So anyway, that's coming right up.

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I think it's hard to get to the bottom of something.

Absolutely.

But I don't want people to think that we haven't had a good amount of conversation about this and

read some books and did some research. Well, only reason I use that, the only reason I give that

disclaimer is because there's thousands of couples that are going to hear this or

of individuals and all the situations are different. Billions are going to list.

But yeah, they're going to have different contexts. They're going to have different situations,

different personalities, different everything. So I just hesitate to say, hey, we've got the fix

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