Matthew Arzi here with Love Life. I am super excited about today's show because we have

a great topic to discuss. But first I have a question for you. If I told you there were

five things you could say to get a man positively addicted to you, would you try them? If the

answer is yes, then be sure to listen until the end of today's show because I'm going

to tell you how you can get your hands on those five magic phrases. Now let's get to

the episode. We have a caller in today. Rizka, are you there? Oh, hi Matthew. It's a nice

three-year voice. It's so good to hear your voice. How are you? I'm good. What was your

question, Rizka? Okay, my question was about how do you, how, how, how once you handle

yourself, I don't feel the situation where you hurt somewhere and they're causing them

to lose trust in you or there's been some sort of risk in the relationship which you

might be somewhat responsible for. It's a great question and it happens all the time.

You know, it happens between men and women in both directions. So I think it's a great

question. How do you overcome trust issues from that point on? Well, there's a process.

One of the big mistakes that people make is they want it all to happen overnight. But

there's a process in this. One part of the process is obvious. It's forgiveness. But

sometimes we want people's forgiveness before we've earned it. So I'm not necessarily going

to put forgiveness at the beginning. But there are some things we can do to help speed

that process up. The first one is communicating to that person that this is something that

won't happen again. And in order to be able to communicate that, we need to know why it

won't happen again. So part of that is understanding why it happened in the first place. This

is something people often don't do. For example, if someone were to be unfaithful, rather

than just say, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, it will never happen again. What people

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