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The Tai Lopez Show

The 3 Secrets to Reading People

The Tai Lopez Show

Tai Lopez

Business

4.86.9K Ratings

🗓️ 28 June 2019

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

“Machiavellianism is when people pursue in an interpersonally exploitative strategy.” - Dr. David Buss(click to tweet)Growing a business requires working with other people.It’s a fundamental truth that we’re sometimes unwilling to accept. We might think locking ourselves in our office to fine-tune the product/service helps, but the reality is that the business is only as good as the connections you make with other people. That’s why on today’s episode of The Tai Lopez Show, we are joined by world-renowned evolutionary psychologist, Dr. David Buss, to discuss the fundamentals of being a human being. With this information, we can go out into the world and more effectively read the people we work with. Professor Buss is the author of The New Science of the Mind, and currently teaches at the University of Texas at Austin. He has previously taught at Harvard and the University of Michigan, and today he explains the mechanics behind human psychology.Don’t forget! You can also listen to The Tai Lopez Show on Spotify! Click “Follow” and let me know what you think!“We evolved in small groups, and all groups have status hierarchies. From an evolutionary perspective, reproductively relevant resources always accrue to those with the highest status.” - Dr. David Buss(click to tweet)Points to Keep In MindHost networking events at your house once a month and invite people you want to connect withBullying is a massive predictor for psychological problemsMachiavellianism is a trait in people who pursue in an interpersonally exploitative strategyThis can be masked in charismaNarcissism is a sense of entitlement and skewed value of others vs. value of themselves (welfare-tradeoff ratio)Agreeableness is flexibility, patience, gentleness, and forgivenessConscientiousness is diligence, prudence, organization, and perfectionHigh psychopathy scores are void of empathy and impermeable to learning how to improveEntrepreneurs score the worst on dark triad testsNarcissism is tied to creativity and intelligenceBiggest red flags in long-term mate: high neuroticism or low agreeablenessHigh psychopathy scores are incapable of being fixedResourcesRead The H Factor of Personality to learn how to categorize peopleUse Dark Triad Personality Test to find out how people score on machiavellianism, narcissism, and psychopathyNarcissism Personality Test to find out which how you score on: authority, self-sufficiency, superiority, exhibitionism, exploitativeness, vanity, entitlementRead the 25 Cognitive Biases to learn what elements of human psychology to integrate into your adsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

I'd rather have a good life than try to eat and pull out the maximum amount of money in my life.

0:06.0

I'm telling you, going for the maximum amount of money in your life in my experience will decrease

0:11.9

the quality of your life. And what good is money if you don't like life, right?

0:21.2

High status people are those to whom the most people pay the most attention.

0:26.4

Yes. And so just the fact that there are, in this case, I don't know, a hundred people here

0:32.2

or if you're in a stage of 30 or a thousand or 10,000, all the attention is focused on you

0:38.1

and just simply due to the attention structure you rise in steps. I'll tell you a one

0:42.8

interesting funny anecdote about that. This is also true in chimpanzees, the attention structure.

0:48.5

And once there was this, this true story, there was this funny looking chimpanzee who everyone

0:54.9

kind of stared at, not because they were high in status, but because they were funny looking.

0:59.2

Okay. And this chimpanzee was a male chimpanzee, rose in status simply because everyone was paying

1:04.2

attention to it. So it's just weird looking. It was just weird looking. Now I'm not recommending that

1:08.1

as a way to get inside. They call that a nightclubs. Guys do peacocky. There's like, you know,

1:12.9

if you read books by pickup artists, they're like, go and wear a crate. I had a friend, no joke. He used

1:18.4

to wear glasses that blinked all the way. They had lights. Hermann, you guys know Dr. Fresco. He's

1:25.8

a Ph.D. And we go to nightclub and I was in Hollywood Boulevard. We walk in and he puts these guys,

1:32.2

and I'm like, what? He's like 30 years old at the time. I'm like, what are you doing? He's like,

1:36.2

girls notice me when I wear these. I'm like, yeah, but not always for the right reasons. They're like,

1:40.3

who's that 30 year old man with little kid glasses on? But, but there's something. So here's a second

1:45.3

practical tip on that. How to grow and status and get attention that you can then use to grow your

1:51.2

business. Very important. I think once a month, everybody here should have an event at your house.

1:57.5

So there's a guy in L.A. What's his name, Maya, that does the networking book. I'll remember his name

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