The 10X Marriage | ReWire 1881
The Hardcore Closer Podcast
Ryan Stewman
4.9 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 13 February 2026
⏱️ 4 minutes
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Summary
When I was a kid, my introduction to marriage was not great.
My mom and dad split early, a stepdad got introduced and my overall introduction to love and marriage was not what I thought it should be.
My parents beat my ass if I made mistakes.
I never had unconditional love.
In 2014, I was going through a phase in life, and all of my marraiges ended based on conditions.
Same for work.........I love you when you're making sales, but not when you're not doing your job.
My wife Amy taught me, no matter what, there were no conditions in this love.
There were no conditions that would break this love as long as she is her and I am me.
We have children together.
My kids come and I simply love my children because they exist.
When I started seeing this through my kids, I knew my wife loved me the way I love my kids.
I was able to become vulnerable and let my guard down with my wife.
My marriage has been nothing short of amazing.
The last 4 years of me not testing the conditions of this love have made this a 10X marriage.
I highly recommend.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the rewire podcast. |
| 0:02.0 | I'm your host, Ryan Stumann, |
| 0:03.7 | and I'm here to rewire your mind for success. |
| 0:07.3 | You were put on this planet for success. |
| 0:09.8 | You were created to succeed, |
| 0:11.7 | but the force of average is after you every single day, |
| 0:14.8 | my brothers and sisters, |
| 0:16.0 | and this podcast is the one thing that's designed |
| 0:18.9 | to help you fight the force of average and excel in |
| 0:21.8 | every area of your life. We're glad that you're here. |
| 0:25.3 | At age seven, I was adopted by my stepdad. My mom remarried. My dad was nowhere in the picture |
| 0:33.4 | and my stepdad probably just thought it would be a good idea to make my last name match |
| 0:39.4 | his to where he didn't have to explain shit to people. If I'm guessing, that's probably the |
| 0:43.8 | scenario. Well, you know, I never felt like my whole life I received what I would later on |
| 0:51.3 | become to know as unconditional love. |
| 0:55.0 | You see, as a child, the only time that I was told I love you or given a hug or an |
| 1:00.2 | add-a-boy is when I was performing in sports or I was working hard or doing chores or doing |
| 1:07.8 | something that benefited those adults around me. When I did something that didn't |
| 1:13.0 | benefit, I never had the parents that were like, you know what, if he hurt somebody, we still love |
| 1:18.6 | them unconditionally. He's our child. I had the parents that were like, if he hurt somebody, |
| 1:22.6 | fuck them. You're going to have to deal with whatever ramifications come alongside of that. |
| 1:26.5 | So I never had this unconditional love. |
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