You're on the virtue. So she go out with her friends ex-husband over the weekend or not we tried

and asking the friend about it on Friday. All right, so this is a newer friend. They've known each other

for two years, but they have built a pretty solid friendship in that two years and she considers

her a very close friend. And for the record, she did not know her when she was married to her ex-husband.

She has divorced her ex-husband for some time now, so it's been a couple years.

And she and the ex-husband ran into each other and there is a spark and there's something there

and she feels it and she had us reach out to her friend asking, not asking for a blessing or

permission, kind of gauging how she would take it if she were to date her, her friend's ex-husband.

And it wasn't completely cold. She basically was like, you do what you think is right,

which is basically saying, no, I don't want you to date my ex-husband, but I'm going to see how

you handle this situation to see what kind of friend you really are. So that was basically how it

was left. So now we have to find out if she did indeed decide if she did indeed decide to pursue

dating her friend's ex-husband. Before I even read the update, I think Cassie nailed this on Friday

that just the ask alone is enough to change the friendship forever. Right, 100%.

I mean, there's no rebounding from that, right? I don't think so. I mean, just the sheer fact,

the sheer fact you saw it would be okay to do that makes me question what kind of friend you are.

So the update, dear virtue, I, well, I thought a long time about what the right thing to do was,

I know she's one of my best friends. Here we go. However,

which is a fancy way of saying it, but, however, she hasn't been in my life for that long when you

think of the grand scheme of things. So you get the benefits of my integrity if we know each other

for longer than three years. Of course. But for that, so if I was looking at my entire life,

past, present and future seems really dumb to not explore the possibility of a relationship with

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