The virtue I find it infuriating and I found it infuriating on Friday also when parents

Hold the wedding ran some really because they're the ones paying for it, right?

I mean all of a sudden there's this entitled and look for I'm paying for it. It's gonna be my rules

No, it's still supposed to be baby girl or baby boys day, right? But on Friday

Mom's was the worst

I mean she was just beyond the worst and there was

There was there was not gonna be a way to get out of this smoothly

And we knew that going in and we were trying our best but it

It didn't end well. I mean when it gets to a point where you're like mom, you can't come wedding dress shopping

Um, then you know you're kind of at your limit, right? So we had a birchow listener reach out to us

She's the maid of honor and in her sister's wedding on on behalf of her sister

She needed to tell her mom not to come wedding dress shopping her sister did not want her there and

Mom is putting the bill for the wedding and that includes paying for the wedding dress and we're like and this is you know

First order to get married and she had not

You know exhibited this behavior before this was like all of a sudden they're doing wedding planning

And she's getting super controlling and we're like let's give mom the benefit of the doubt which was our first

mistake and let's just try to lay down some ground rules for the wedding dress shopping and

Ultimately, she wasn't having the ground rules

She wanted to show up to the shop early to talk to the owner of the shop to give them ideas of what they need to show her daughter

Because her daughter wasn't gonna pick the right dress

She'll end up looking like a fool etc

Like it got it got nasty

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