Get it, the virtue.

All right, so we're going to start texting with Charlotte here to one of her friends.

Now Charlotte wants the blessing of this friend to go out on a date with the friend's ex-husband.

All right, I think-

No kids involved.

No kids involved.

So she wouldn't be a potential new step mom.

So it's kind of a second tier friend, but they're co-workers and friends here.

I do want to reiterate something Cassie said here also that I think just the ask is going

to change your relationship or could very well change the relationship with your friend

here.

If she gives blessing or not, simply asking might be so awkward that it changes the friendship.

So I think you got to know that going in.

Yeah, I just, I mean, at this point I feel bad even keeping it from her.

So I do just want to even let her know about the situation.

Before we delve in and I'm not trying to like sabotage the texting tutor, I swear to you

I'm not.

This is right about the time you start to go ahead and mess up our texting tutor.

But in this situation, does it make sense to even, because right now she just feels like

there's a spark.

Does it make sense to explore and see if there actually is something with the ex-husband?

No.

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