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You're on the virtue.

Correct. She's realizing and taking a look and reflecting at the beginning of the

year, like a lot of people do, as to what serves her and what doesn't serve her. In this

relationship, she has with Becca does not serve her. Her perspective is that Becca is

toxic to her life. She's a negative person that brings negative energy to her and she's

ready to form some distance. Now, my question for you, Annie, before we do this, have you

ever told Becca so Becca could make an effort to change her behavior?

No, I'm not. I don't want to say no.

All right. That there lies the rub. If this is a true friend, you give a friend a chance

to redeem themselves in your eyes. And like, hey, this is behavior that I'm not cool with.

This affects me a certain way. If we're going to be friends, you need to make these adjustments

and then once they don't, you can say, peace out.

When she's been rude, like, I don't feel a way to her or waitress, I've been like, Becca,

you know, and she's like, what? You know, so I call her out on a little bit there, but

I've never had this sit down conversation. I admit it's my fault that I've not confronted

her on this, but I think now the beast is bigger than the boat.

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