The virtue. So we are about to start texting tutor with Bri here who is about to go on vacation

with her sister, a family vacation with her sister. But Bri, if I understand it, you want

our help texting your sister to say, hey, um, this is not a vacation for the bathing suits

that you would normally wear on a spring break. You want her to cover up a little bit.

That's exactly correct. What is the why in having her wear more conservative suits or even

just wearing a one piece rather than a two piece? So she, I mean, she has such a fabulous

body and I've had two kids and with the kids, I haven't had time to get like my pre baby

body back. She does yoga all day. She, she's got like a dog. She walks the dog. I mean,

she's very active. She's such an active lifestyle. Hernerboyfriend go hiking and I'm just like

after taking care of the kids all day, I'm exhausted. So I haven't hit the gym since before

the first one. And I get so self conscious around her because she looks amazing and I don't.

So I really appreciate it if you know, I can have more fun not thinking about how great

she looks. Oh, oh, here comes Cass. No, does she make comments about your body or how

about you should go to the gym and stuff like that? Yeah, I mean, she doesn't do it in

a mean way, but she does. Like she, she brings it up every now and then, you know, like,

well, if you can't go to the gym, maybe you should eat more salads. You know, eat more

solids. Oh, she said solid. I eat more. Wow. Yeah, that's pretty solid. Let us like

wrap it. Yeah. Well, even that is kind of offensive. Hey, maybe she'd eat that. That

is awful. I feel a little bit mean well, but like she's trying, I think she's trying

to help, but it's like, is she saying that because you're complaining about like, are

you the one that's like, Oh, I wish I was looked this way. I wish I was losing weight.

I, you know, are you expressing how you feel about your body? And therefore, she's responding

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