All right, men, welcome back to the man talk show. I am Connor Beaten. And today we're going to be

talking about the 10 things that men do that destroy their lives. Now, this is an amalgamation of

what I have seen in men after working with guys for the last decade. Some of these, most of these,

are things that I've done in my own life and had to move through. So I'm going to give you

some practical stories and ways to move through them. But let's just dive straight in because I think

what I've noticed is that there's a very real crisis of masculinity within our culture. And a lot

of people are struggling to understand why so many men are in decline, why a lot of young men

are struggling. And in our culture, it's not

uncommon for men to feel like they don't have a place within society and culture. It's very easy

to be distracted. It's very easy to buy into narratives that men aren't wanted or needed. It's

very easy to buy into this notion that you have to live under a certain framework,

right? This is sort of what the Red Pill community sells is like if you just live into this

frame as a man in this very specific way of being, that everything will sort of be solved in your

life. And I don't necessarily know if it's that simple, not that there's not merit in that. I think

it can be very helpful for a lot of people. But, you know, I've worked with thousands of guys from around the

world. And I have been working with men for a very long time. And there's some patterns that I

have noticed that really damage our lives as men. And they destroy our relationships,

our purpose, all these pieces.

And many of these I've fallen into the trap of.

So let's get started.

The first one, honestly, the biggest one that I've seen across the board, and to be honest

with you, one of the biggest ones that I struggled with in my life is lacking impulse control.

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