Talk Your Way to Better Sex

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 19 November 2024

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Here’s a secret. The #1 obstacle standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing: communication. It’s not a cliche - it’s a skill, and on today’s Ask Emily show, we’re talking our way to better sex. So let’s bravely face the awkwardness, with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos. Clamming up during sex talks? I’ve got a confidence-building solution for that. How about giving tough feedback, like asking for better handjobs, or addressing a funky smell? We get into it! Finally, we tackle tough topics like telling a friend you have feelings for them, whether or not to open a relationship, and if you should stay in a partnership if the sex is just OK. Communication is lubrication, but you know what? It’s also liberating, and by the end of this episode, you’ll be feeling a lot more free. In this episode, you’ll learn: How to confidently speak up about your needs in the bedroom Why communication is the ultimate lubricant for better sex The secret to navigating relationship dilemmas—whether it’s mismatched libidos, feelings for a friend, or trying non-monogamy for the first time. Show Notes: Try The Je Joue Hera Flex Today! Head to sexwithemily.com/hera and use code "EMILY30" at checkout for 30% off. Join the SmartSX Membership: Access exclusive sex coaching, live expert sessions, community building, and tools to enhance your pleasure and relationships with Dr. Emily Morse. Yes! No! Maybe? List & Other Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube Let’s text: Sign up here Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com

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0:00.0	I think you get comfortable speaking about it by speaking about it.
0:10.0	When you start to say the things that you think you cannot say,
0:13.0	you'll find that there are the people who are like, wow, thank you for sharing.
0:16.0	Oh, I know someone who had that same situation.
0:19.0	And your people, the ones that you want to be with and that you want to have sex with and be
0:24.0	intimate and having your life as friends or lovers are not the ones that are going to make
0:27.7	you feel bad, they're going to judge you, that are going to stigmatize you and make you feel less
0:33.0	than.
0:35.4	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:40.8	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex. Here's a secret. The number one obstacle
0:48.5	standing between you and the sex of your dreams probably comes down to exactly one thing, communication.
0:56.5	It's not a cliche, it's a skill.
0:59.5	And on today's Ask Emily show, we're talking our way to better sex.
1:03.5	So let's bravely face the awkwardness with communication hacks for even the most nerve-wracking of convos.
1:09.9	Clamming up during sex talks?
1:11.7	I've got a confidence-building solution for that.
1:14.3	How about giving tough feedback,
1:16.0	like asking for better hand jobs
1:17.7	or addressing a funky smell?
1:19.8	We get into it.
1:21.4	Finally, we tackle tough topics
1:23.1	like telling a friend you have feelings for them
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