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Something You Should Know

SYSK Choice: The Value of Criticism & Instantly Make Your Relationship Better

Something You Should Know

Mike Carruthers | OmniCastMedia

Education, Social Sciences, Self-improvement, Science, Health & Fitness

4.54.3K Ratings

🗓️ 11 January 2020

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Want to keep your fresh cut flowers, fresher? My grandmother always said put aspirin in the water and I’ve also heard you should put a penny in the water or some sugar. Well someone actually tested all these things out – and you’ll hear the results and discover what works best. http://www.realsimple.com/home-organizing/gardening/gardening-flowers/keep-cut-flowers-fresh/flower-food You constantly receive criticism and feedback from people – some of it is welcome some not. Some of it is warranted and some of it not. So how can you learn to evaluate the feedback coming at you so you can determine what is true and what is false – and not get defensive? And then how do you use that feedback to your advantage? Sheila Heen author of the book, Thanks for the Feedback: The Science and Art of Receiving Feedback Well (http://amzn.to/2pelwW0) has studied this and you will find what she has to say extremely helpful. Why do so many marriages and relationships go bad? Dr Harville Hendrix has been studying relationships and has worked with couples for over 30 years. He has authored several books on the topic including Making Marriage Simple (http://amzn.to/2pYzh9k). He shares some incredible insight into how any relationship can be made better – instantly if at least one person is willing to make some simple changes. Who doesn’t love bacon? Just the smell of bacon cooking is enough to make you crave it. So what is it about bacon that makes it so desirable? I’ll explain the science of bacon in this episode. https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=133&v=27EBed9rzs8 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Today on something you should know, what's the best way to keep fresh cut flowers fresh

0:07.4

you're longer?

0:08.5

The research is in.

0:10.5

Plus learning how to take feedback and criticism without getting upset can be very valuable.

0:15.7

So, when your mother-in-law is giving you that barrage of parenting advice, you know,

0:20.5

a few of her suggestions might be helpful and your willingness to just not react to it

0:25.3

negatively and entertain the conversation will go a really long way in improving your

0:29.8

relationship.

0:30.8

Then, why do people crave bacon?

0:33.8

I'll explain the science of why bacon is so irresistible.

0:38.3

And why do relationships go bad?

0:40.6

One of the world's leading authorities on the subject offer some fascinating insight.

0:45.6

Negativity is the problem and negativity is to find us to put down.

0:49.5

And a put down is any interaction that devalues another partner.

0:53.6

The negativity has to go.

0:55.8

All this today on something you should know.

1:00.8

Something you should know.

1:03.1

Fascinating intel.

1:04.1

The world's top experts and practical advice you can use in your life today.

1:10.5

Something you should know with Mike Karothers.

1:14.1

Hi and welcome to the weekend episode of something you should know.

1:19.0

And now that the holidays are over, before you know it, Valentine's Day will be here.

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