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Flying Free

Survivor Story: Yvette [216]

Flying Free

Natalie Hoffman

Emotional, Narcissism, Christianity, Abuse, Religion & Spirituality, Spiritual, Christian, Self-improvement, Education, Divorce, Marriage

51K Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2023

⏱️ 42 minutes

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Summary

Have you experienced being discarded by your husband, either emotionally or physically? Yvette Stone has experienced both. Being discarded is a pain that cuts so deep, even the strongest person is not immune to it.


Yvette is here to tell us about her life story, from marrying her narcissistic abuser at nineteen to thriving as a trauma-informed psychotherapist who now helps other women just like her. Just like you. Join us as she tells her incredible story of healing.


Key Points From This Episode:

  • What a narcissistic abusive relationship is.
  • Why it’s fair to say that everyone is on the narcissistic spectrum.
  • What the phrase “deflated narcissistic tendencies” means.
  • How Yvette found out that she was dealing with a narcissistic husband.
  • How Yvette’s husband packed up and left after a year of marriage (and how they “made up” and spent the next twenty-some years together).
  • Yvette’s journey back to school and the repercussions that caused in her marriage.
  • How Yvette was served divorce papers at the end of her two decades of marriage without even a single conversation about divorce. Talk about discard.
  • The hardest part about healing and the best part about healing from a narcissistic abusive relationship.

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Related Resources:

  • Connect with Yvette on her website.
  • If you are a Christian woman who thinks you may be in an emotionally destructive marriage, learn more at https://flyingfreenow.com
  • I'll send you (free!) the first chapter of my book, Is It Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage, which has an assessment to help you figure out if your relationship is abusive or not. All you have to do is hop on my mailing list at https://flyingfreesisterhood.com/free-download
  • You can also find out about our online education and support program for women of faith at https://joinflyingfree.com
  • And finally, if you are a divorced Christian woman who wants to take back her life and get healthy, lose weight, have amazing relationships, get things done, build a business or career, and even find a good man (if you want one) - check out Flying Higher at https://joinflyinghigher.com

Yvette Stone is a human, both being and doing. A former magazine publisher, Yvette changed careers midlife and now practices as a trauma-informed psychotherapist and life coach based in Seattle, Washington, specializing in helping women recover from domestic violence, particularly narcissistic abuse. Yvette earned her degree from The Seattle School of Theology and Psychology, and has worked as a Fellow at the Allender Center, and as an advocate with Northwest Family Life. In her free time, you can find her holding a one-sided conversation with her dog, doing some sort of intense workout, painting a portrait, reveling in paradox, or dreaming of her next great challenge.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi, this is Natalie Hoffman of Flying Free Now. And you're listening to the

0:09.3

Flying Free Podcast, a support resource for women of faith, looking for hope and healing from hidden

0:16.4

emotional and spiritual abuse.

0:18.9

Welcome to episode 216 of the Flying Free Podcast.

0:27.0

Today we're going to meet Yvette Stone.

0:30.0

She is a former magazine publisher who changed careers midlife and now she practices as a trauma-informed

0:37.2

psychotherapist and is specializing in helping women recover from narcissistic abuse.

0:44.0

So she's a good candidate to be here talking with us, right?

0:48.0

She's worked as a fellow at the Allender Center

0:51.0

and as an advocate with Northwest Family Life and she's here to tell us

0:55.8

about her own experience in an emotionally abusive relationship and how she

1:00.8

got out and healed.

1:02.6

And the other thing that you should know about her

1:04.4

is that she's a friend of Christie Bowman

1:06.4

who has been on this podcast in the past.

1:09.1

And Christie's husband Andrew Bowman,

1:11.2

who's also been on this podcast podcast I think twice in the past.

1:15.0

So Yvette is a good friend of theirs and a good friend of theirs is a good friend of ours.

1:19.7

So welcome Yvette to the Flying Free Podcast.

1:22.6

Thank you, Natalie.

1:23.6

It's good to be here.

1:24.6

It's fun to hear you say all that.

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