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Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Surviving the Unthinkable: Rebuilding My Life After Trauma and Loss, #582

Java with Juli - Making Sense of God and Sex

Authentic Intimacy®

Julislattery, Society & Culture, Authenticintimacy, Ihatesex, Christian, Relationships, Pornography, Biblicalsexuality, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Ismasturbationasin

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 22 September 2025

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, author Kimberly Haar opens up about surviving a violent abduction and assault at the hands of her ex-husband. With unflinching honesty, she recounts the night her world shattered—and how faith, forgiveness, and Christian therapy helped her rebuild her life. 

Guest: Kimberly Haar

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Transcript

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0:00.0

I woke up at 2.30 in the morning and my bedroom door was coming crashing down off the hinges.

0:07.1

And for the next four hours, I was assaulted.

0:10.6

And the next four to six weeks were really the beginnings of a healing process of walking through one of the worst experiences of my life.

0:23.0

Hi, friend.

0:24.2

Welcome to Job with Julie.

0:25.8

I am your host, Julie Slattery, and this podcast is an outreach of authentic intimacy,

0:31.2

a ministry that's dedicated to helping you make sense of God and sexuality.

0:35.8

I'm really excited to share today's conversation with you and

0:38.7

introduce you to a new friend, Kimberly Har. That was Kimberly's voice you heard at the beginning of the

0:44.8

show, and you're going to hear more of the remarkable story of how she survived the harrowing

0:50.5

experience of being abducted by her ex-husband. And here's why Kimberly's story is so important.

0:57.3

A lot of us carry wounds from marriages or relationships that were nothing like what God

1:02.6

designed them to be.

1:04.5

And unfortunately, those wounds shape our lives and shape who we become.

1:09.6

So we need real tools to cope with trauma, to pursue healing,

1:13.6

and even to walk toward forgiveness. And that's what you're going to hear from Kimberly today.

1:19.4

Kimberly is a licensed professional counselor and a marriage and family therapist. And after what

1:24.9

she's been through, she is really passionate about helping women get unstuck

1:29.5

from their pain and find their freedom to move forward.

1:33.0

But before we go there, can I ask you a quick favor?

1:36.7

Hey, Java with Julie is here because of you.

1:38.7

We create it for you, and we've released more than 500 episodes, and I want to be sure that we're still covering

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