Coming up on marriage today with Jimmy and Karen, every man wants to know one thing I have what it takes

And every woman wants to know one thing you're worth fighting for and when a woman tells her husband, you've got what it takes.

And a man tells his wife you're worth fighting for it.

That's called heaven. striking your sexual match and I want to talk about this this is kind of a play on words here

of striking your sexual match. I want to talk about igniting the sexual passion and

deepening the intimacy of your relationship. Let me say this. Good sex is

always intentional. You may have been, you know, naturally, obviously attracted to each

other sexually when you met, But we can enjoy sex for the

rest of our married lives. You know research proves that people are enjoying

sex 70s, 80s, longer than ever because we're living longer and because of

medical technology, but it's always

intentional. It's never by accident. Listen, don't let the devil tell you the lie that if you

married the right person that it would just happen naturally and you wouldn't have to work at it.

That's just not true.

You always have to put energy into the relationship regardless.

But the other thing about striking your sexual match is,

it's how to take the natural differences

that are between us and to make them dynamic

rather than dangerous.

God made us different by his design. We're very, very different.

And when you understand those differences, it's dynamic,

but when you don't, it's very dangerous thing.

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