Are you happy? Are you grounded? Are you connected to the things that matter to your life?

Or do you find yourself diverted into scratching the itch of boredom with the jingle-jangle distraction of checking your phone

or sliding down a YouTube rabbit hole or turning on the telly, old school style?

How present are you?

Do you celebrate your wins before scurrying onto the next task

like a hysterical little rabbit on a hedonic treadmill?

When was the last time you climbed a tree?

If that sounds like the sort of question

a crystal-dangling hippie-dippy dreamippy dream catcher ayahuasca flower child would ask,

maybe you just haven't been paying enough attention to how you pay attention.

Sometimes to get a real micro focus and a macro perspective, you need a life-changing event to force you to think things and say

things and ask things that are deep and grounding and often more than any other questions

we face, deeply uncomfortable. Wow, what an amazing episode this week.

I've just recorded the interview with Stuart Diver.

You have to listen to this all the way through.

Do not allow yourself at any point to lose interest in whatever random rabbit hole we might be going down.

Because Stewart's an incredible person.

One of those people who just leaves me at the end of the interview going, man, I've got a lot to learn from this guy.

I kind of want him as my friend or priest or something.

For those of you who might not be in Australia or who weren't alive 20, what is it,

four years ago, and don't remember the Threadbow landslide.

You might not know the name Stuart Diver, but he was the sole survivor of one of the great

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