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First This

Stories We Tell

First This

Kathryn Nicolai

Mental Health, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Relaxation, Kathrynnicolai, Mindfulness, Alternative Health, Nothingmuchhappens, Meditation

4.9701 Ratings

🗓️ 13 May 2024

⏱️ 11 minutes

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Summary

Is that story you're telling true? Is it helping you?

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to first this, a short mindfulness practice and message for any time.

0:10.5

I'm Catherine Nikolai. Okay, let's settle in. As always, any position is fine. There is no hierarchy of postures here.

0:23.3

Just be comfortable enough that you can be mostly still for the next few minutes.

0:31.3

Then breathe in deep and sigh it out in through the nose and out.

0:40.3

In through the nose and out the mouth. Good.

1:00.1

So lips together now.

1:05.2

And just a natural breath through your nose.

1:10.3

If it's deep, let it be. If it's shallow, let it be. Just observe it. When you realize you've wandered

1:23.9

elsewhere, no frustration or disappointment. It's actually a really helpful and

1:31.3

useful moment in this, the moment when you get to practice starting over. So hey, well done.

1:39.2

You just begin again. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thinking today about the stories we tell ourselves, that can get ingrained into how we think.

3:56.4

Meditation is a time when we can observe our thoughts with some perspective, or maybe spot

4:05.4

some that are not helpful or not true. Thank you. A few years ago, a friend asked me about my plans for something.

5:08.1

The specifics don't really matter.

5:12.8

She just said, you know, did I intend to X, Y, Z?

5:23.3

And without thinking, I opened my mouth and repeated something I'd heard my seventh grade teacher say about me when I was 13 years old.

5:27.1

In all the years in between, I'd been repeating her words.

5:33.3

I'd been saying, oh, I can't do X, Y, Z because, and filled in the blank.

5:43.6

I'd heard it said, taken it as undeniably true, and lived according to it for decades.

5:57.7

Love it. to it for decades. Luckily, my friend is a wise person, and she just paused and slowly nodded her head and said,

6:09.2

the stories we tell ourselves, right?

6:18.1

It wasn't awakening for me.

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