Stop Trying To Make People Love You

The Mindset Mentor

Rob Dial

Mindset, Health & Fitness, Education, Business

4.9 • 14.2K Ratings

🗓️ 24 January 2024

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I chat about why it's not our job to make others love us. Instead, it's all about finding out who we really are, being that person authentically, and then magnetically attracting those who will love us just the way we are. Sounds liberating, right? We'll explore how our quest for acceptance can sometimes lead us astray, making us lose sight of our true selves. Remember those days when we tried so hard to fit in? Well, it's time to talk about it! From childhood pressures to societal norms, I'll share insights and personal experiences on how these influences can shape us and why it's so important to break free from them. I'm also super thrilled to share some practical tips on how to rediscover and embrace your true self. Expect discussions on building confidence, nurturing genuine relationships, and staying true to your own values and interests. It's all about being unapologetically YOU! Remember, it's not about changing for others; it's about being true to yourself and finding your tribe. Let's dive in and discover the power of authenticity together!

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0:00.0	Welcome to today's episode of the Mindset Mentor Podcast. I'm your host Rob Dial.
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0:24.0	Text me right now, 512-850930-51-skin 512-8509305.
0:31.6	Today we're going to be talking about how your need for acceptance from other people is
0:37.2	changing who you actually are and how it's not really your job to make other
0:42.1	people love you. Now I do understand this. As humans we all
0:47.1	want to be loved, we all want to be accepted, we all want to be part of
0:51.0	something. It's built into the human circuitry. It's what helped
0:54.0	our species survive, you know, in order for us to grow and become the adults that we are now.
1:00.0	We had to have our caretakers, our parents, whoever it might have been that was there, take care of
1:05.2	us and we had to basically do what they needed us to do or wanted us to do in order for us to
1:10.9	basically still be able to fit in and be able to be taken care of at least that's how he feels.
1:15.0	I need to do what my parents tell me to do so that therefore they continue to love me.
1:19.2	And sometimes our quest for acceptance from other people, when we're trying to be accepted by other people
1:25.7	We can absolutely 100% lose ourselves many people do this when they're younger and they're in
1:32.2	Relationships and you can see how they start to
1:35.2	change themselves simply because of the people that they're hanging out around and maybe
1:40.4	they change themselves because they have found their truest self.
1:43.0	But a lot of times what we do is we change ourselves and we become more like the people that we surround ourselves with so that we can fit in,
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