STOP Trying To Change Others! People Change Only If They Want To - Ed Mylett
THE ED MYLETT SHOW
Ed Mylett
4.9 • 14.1K Ratings
🗓️ 18 April 2026
⏱️ 94 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | This is the Edmiler Show. |
| 0:05.0 | Hey everyone, welcome to my weekend special. |
| 0:11.0 | I hope you enjoy the show. |
| 0:12.0 | Be sure to follow the Edmyshow on Apple and Spotify. |
| 0:15.0 | Links are in the show notes. |
| 0:17.0 | You'll never miss an episode that way. |
| 0:19.0 | Now on with the show. |
| 0:20.0 | All right, welcome back to the show. I love our Thursday episodes because it gives me a chance to answer your questions on the show. So I love creating content for you when I do the interviews or my solo episodes, but I also love answering your questions because I know that it's exactly the things that you need help with. And so today's no exception. By the way, if you have something |
| 0:37.5 | you want help with or a question answered, you can DM me on Instagram at Ed Milet, and there's a chance to lend up on the show like it did today. Today's question is all about change, which is a really interesting one, except not change of oneself, change of another person. So this person's question was, Can you please help me change my spouse in the way they behave? |
| 0:55.4 | Let me be very clear with you. |
| 0:57.4 | No, I can't. So this person's question was, can you please help me change my spouse in the way they behave? |
| 0:55.0 | Let me be very clear with you. |
| 0:57.0 | No, I can't. |
| 0:59.0 | And more importantly, neither can you. |
| 1:02.0 | So many of us, and I'll put myself included in this, we are wasting so much time, effort and energy, |
| 1:08.0 | trying to get another human being to change when they're not going to. |
| 1:12.4 | They're certainly not going to change for you. If a human being is going to change their behavior, |
| 1:17.4 | they're going to change that behavior because they choose to, because they want to. |
| 1:21.8 | And no cajoling, no threatening, no encouraging is going to get another human being to change on your behalf. |
| 1:28.6 | And so so many of you are wasting energy, focus, and time with somebody who is not going to change. |
| 1:36.7 | And so you need to decide. |
| 1:38.1 | I'm not saying that you don't want people to treat you in a way that you deserve or that you're worthy of. |
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