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She's So Lucky

Stop Settling for Almost: How to Actually Get What You Want

She's So Lucky

She's So Lucky

Lesalfred, #Shessolucky, Entrepreneurship, Balancedles, Business, Self-improvement, Balancedblackgirl, Education

4.9 • 2.9K Ratings

🗓️ 3 February 2026

⏱️ 48 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

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Summary

#331: In this unfiltered solo episode, I break down why February is about claiming what’s yours and what it really takes to get what you want. Not the aesthetic version. Not the “manifest and wait” version. The real version: with clarity, courage, discipline, and having that dog in you.

From recognizing your unfair advantage, to building the capacity to hold bigger dreams, to shooting your shot even when you’re scared, I walk you through how luck is actually built through bold decisions, uncomfortable growth, and choosing yourself even when it feels risky


✨ In this episode:

  • I share personal stories about how early conditioning and outside voices can plant desires in us that aren’t actually ours
  • Why it’s crucial to get honest about what you truly want (not what you’ve been told to want)
  • I tell you the truth about “being humble” and why it makes you small
  • Leaning into your real gifts instead of copying others and why that alignment is key
  • Why the people closest to you may struggle the most with your growth
  • How to protect your dreams without cutting everyone off
  • How to unlock your unfair advantage, shoot your shot and get louder about your desires


If you’ve been feeling a pull toward something bigger but haven’t given yourself full permission to be honest about what you want, this episode is your wake-up call.


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This episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct, or indirect financial interest in products, or services referred to in this episode.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

The following podcast is a Dear Media production.

0:11.7

If you truly want to be lucky, tap into this series and you'll learn how to get exactly what you want.

0:16.7

So last month on She's So Lucky, we broke the rules.

0:19.5

And this month, we're coming for what's

0:21.2

ours because February is all about how to get what you want. First, we have some housekeeping

0:26.9

to take care of. If you are not subscribed to the She's So Lucky channel, make sure you hit

0:30.5

that subscribe button so that you can get new episodes every single Tuesday because we're dropping

0:35.4

amazing episodes that will help you be the luckiest girl you know.

0:39.2

Also, in the new year, we started something pretty cool, which is weekly episode companion guides.

0:44.0

So every Tuesday after the episode drops, I send out a weekly newsletter that is actually a

0:48.7

listening guide to accompany every episode. So you will get key takeaways, you'll get extra

0:53.6

resources, you'll get book resources, you'll get book

0:54.8

recommendations, you'll get journal prompts that will help you take what you hear on this podcast

0:59.2

and actually apply them to your life because lucky girls don't just listen. Lucky girls take action.

1:06.0

And I have so many amazing things for you. Every Friday, we're also dropping the Lucky Cut,

1:13.0

which are abbreviated versions of our episodes on our YouTube channel.

1:14.0

She's So, you'll basically get the meat of the episodes.

1:18.3

So if you don't have a full hour to dedicate to the full episode, tune in to the Lucky Cut

1:21.9

on our YouTube channel every Friday to get the juice.

1:25.2

Last month, I talked about breaking the rules and overcoming these little mindset

1:30.2

plateaus that I know have been holding me back and that a lot of you resonated with and said

1:34.4

that they've been holding you back too. And something that I'm really embracing for 2026,

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