If you are an anxious attached person or just an anxious person in relationship, or you're

with an anxious person in relationship, you are going to want to watch all of this video.

I'm going to tell you why.

Most of the videos that are out there in the content

that talks about anxious attachment or anxious people in relationship miss out on some very

crucial things about what creates anxious attachment and how to actually start to deal with moving

towards a more secure connection.

You see, anxious attached people aren't broken.

There's nothing wrong with you.

There's nothing fundamentally going on that, you know,

makes you deficient or defective in relationships.

And the truth is that moving towards secure attachment is actually quite easy or easier at least than you have

been led to think. You see, the truth about anxious attachment is that it's built earlier on in

life when you have learned one of two things. Number one, I am not allowed to have my needs met or prioritized in relationship

unless the other person is taken care of first. And number two, I need you to be okay so I can feel

okay. And what this ends up doing is that for the anxious attached person,

there is a tremendous amount of externalization, right? And that externalization is generally

around their needs, what they want, what they desire, what they crave, and their sense of security and safety.

Now, the hidden saboteur or the inner saboteur of the anxious attached person will usually

make you feel like you are constantly chasing somebody for reassurance. It'll make you feel like you're afraid continually

that your partner is going to leave. And it'll make you dream up all of these wild scenarios

of what could go wrong, why the other person might leave you, why you're not good enough.

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