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Date Yourself Instead

Stop giving SO much to someone you’re not even dating

Date Yourself Instead

Lyss Boss

Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.3K Ratings

🗓️ 8 May 2023

⏱️ 24 minutes

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Summary

In this episode, I dive into a storytime about a guy I was taking on dates around New York City. I was putting in an unreasonable amount of effort…and for what? When someone isn’t your boyfriend, you shouldn’t be the only one making concrete plans.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to date yourself instead.

0:02.6

Date yourself instead.

0:03.6

What does it mean to date yourself instead?

0:05.2

I'm just gonna learn how to love myself, and that's it.

0:11.1

Hello everyone, and welcome to another episode

0:14.2

of date yourself instead.

0:15.9

So today's episode, I really wanted to talk about

0:19.2

why it's important not to rush getting into anything

0:22.6

with anyone and to really take your time

0:24.8

and have a little patience and trust the process

0:27.6

when you're just starting to get to know someone

0:30.0

and you're in the early stages of dating.

0:32.5

I've just been through a lot of experiences

0:34.9

where I had a really instant attraction and connection

0:38.0

to someone and I thought we were literally soulmates

0:41.8

and we were gonna be together

0:43.2

and we were gonna get into a relationship

0:44.8

and dive right in because we had this instant spark

0:47.8

and connection only to find out later

0:50.5

that they weren't the person that I actually thought they were

0:54.2

and it was just kind of a facade

0:55.7

that they were putting on in order to either sleep with me

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