Stop Chasing, Start Allowing: The Secret to Effortless Manifestation

Dear Gabby

Gabby Bernstein

Resilience, Creativity, Selfhelp, Angels, Health & Fitness, Manifesting, Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality, Education, Positivity, Purpose, Self-improvement, Spirit, Manifestation, Belief, Spiritguides, Manifest, Mental Health, Self Help, Gabby Bernstein, Guidance

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🗓️ 1 December 2025

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

If your manifesting practice feels like a frantic, exhausting effort, you might be manifesting the wrong way. In this essential episode, Gabby reveals the 4 most common manifesting mistakes she sees blocking people's flow time and time again. She shares how trying harder to manifest can actually have the opposite effect, keeping you trapped in a cycle of "doing" instead of "receiving". With Gabby’s insights, you’ll be able to identify where you’ve been going wrong and get clear guidance on what to do instead. Listen now and discover how to step out of your own way and finally manifest with ease.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a Dear Media production.
0:09.8	Hey there, welcome to Dear Gabby.
0:12.3	I'm your host, Gabby Bernstein.
0:14.0	And if you landed here, it is absolutely no accident.
0:17.9	It means that you're ready to feel good and manifest a life beyond your wildest dreams.
0:23.3	Let's get started.
0:27.5	Welcome back to Dear Gabby, my friends. Today we're talking about the big mistakes that we make
0:33.7	when we're manifesting, the four biggest mistakes, actually. And what I want to share with you
0:38.7	is going to kind of surprise you today, actually. I think it's going to really surprise you. And as we
0:43.1	move into manifesting season, this topic of the mistakes, the big blocks and the mistakes that we make
0:50.8	is an important topic to address before the 21-day manifesting challenge, which
0:55.0	hopefully you guys are all signing up for because I've taken hundreds of thousands of you
0:59.4	through this challenge year over year. It is the coolest thing I do all year. I have people come up
1:04.3	to me all over the world coming. I did your 21-day manifesting challenge. I was at a talk last week,
1:09.3	actually, and this guy comes up to me during the book signing, and he's like, I need you to FaceTime my fiance. And I was like, okay, sure. And then he's like, we met because she did your 21-day manifesting challenge, and she manifested me by the end of the 21 days. And then we get on the phone with this girl, her name is Jamie. And she's like, Gabby, I can't believe you're here. She's wearing a sweatshirt that says the universe has your back for FaceTiming. And she's like, I have this amazing fiancee and he has to thank you. And him like looking at him like, thank me, bro. So these people close me all over the world. I manifested my husband. I manifested my fiance. I manifested my dream job, my health, my wealth, my child.
1:47.7	I mean... me all over the world. I manifested my husband. I manifested my fiance. I manifested my dream job,
1:45.0	my health, my wealth, my child. I mean, it's the coolest thing, guys, when hundreds and thousands
1:51.6	of us join together to manifest and to do this work, and it's a 21 day challenge. And actually
1:57.4	today, Cyber Monday, it is the absolute best day to join. It's the last chance to join and get a bonus challenge, which is the super attractor and seven-day challenge that you get when you sign up before the end of today, Cyber Monday, plus Gabby AI, which we've been using here on the show. You can have me in your back pocket to call me anytime and you can talk to Gabby AI and get my wisdom.
2:19.8	And then you get the 21 day manifesting challenge. All of that at deargabby.com forward slash bundle.
2:25.6	That's the manifesting bundle.
2:27.2	That bonus expires tonight, tonight, cyber Monday night.
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