Hi there, it's Jillian, and I want to tell you about Jillian on Love Plus, your way to get even more

Jillian on love each week by subscribing on Apple Podcasts or Patreon. You can access exclusive bonus

episodes with extras, including ad-free listening, answers to your most burning questions,

advice on all things dating and relationships,

and much more. Check out the link in the episode description for more information.

Hi there, this is Jillian On Love, and I'm on a mission to teach people how to transform their

romantic relationships by transforming the

relationship they have with themselves. So whether you are in a relationship, you're single

or heartbroken. I've got you covered. I'm Jillian Turecki certified relationship coach,

author and teacher with over 20 years experience helping people transform their relationship with

themselves through their bodies, breaths, and minds. I have now coached and taught thousands of

people to become better versions of themselves and change the way they show up for and within

their love lives. You can't convince someone to love you.

And that is the law of the land.

It is why it's one of the core truths of my book.

It begins with you, the nine hard truths about love.

That will change your life.

And I learned that you can't convince someone to choose you or love you

or be in a relationship with you. I learned that the hard way. I think we all learn that the hard way.

The reason why it's such an important truth and why it's so difficult to deal with or to come to terms with, I should say,

is because every single one of us has a fear that we are not enough in some way. Now, not everyone

has that fear at the same level as others. For some, it's, it's, it's, it's all consuming. All of us have, um,

...