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10% Happier with Dan Harris

Stop Caring What Other People Think About You | Bruce Hood

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Media, LLC

Dan Harris, Health & Fitness, Mindfulness, Dharma, Mental Health, Meditation

4.612.2K Ratings

🗓️ 28 July 2025

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

A happiness expert explains how to alter your ego, reduce self-consciousness, and boost “okayness”. 

 

Bruce Hood has been a Professor of Developmental Psychology in Society at Bristol University since 1999, and for the past 5 years he has been concentrating on how to make students happier. He undertook his Ph.D. in neuroscience at Cambridge followed by appointments at University College London, MIT and a faculty professorship at Harvard. 

 

In this episode we talk about:

  • How to define happiness
  • How to be happy in the midst of a shitshow
  • How to shift from being egocentric (self-focused) to allocentric (interconnected) 
  • The impacts of social isolation (and how to avoid it)
  • The challenge of optimism (and how to overcome it)
  • Finding a “flow state” through meditation
  •  How to enhance your social connections
  • Where “true, authentic happiness” comes from
  • Controlling attention and rejecting negative comparisons 
  • The role of nature
  • And much more



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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the 10% Happier Podcast. I'm Dan Harris.

0:07.7

Hey, hey, everybody. How are we doing? Today, we're going to talk to one of the world's leading happiness experts about how to boost your levels of okayness and optimism while turning down the volume on distraction, egosentrism, self-consciousness, and toxic comparison. Pretty good recipe.

0:40.4

Bruce Hood has been the professor of developmental psychology in society at Bristol University

0:45.6

since 1999. He got a PhD in neuroscience at Cambridge, followed by appointments at University

0:51.9

College London, MIT, and a faculty professorship at Harvard.

0:56.1

He researches child development, origins of superstition, self-identity, and ownership.

1:01.9

For the past five years, however, he's really been concentrating on how to make his students happier.

1:07.7

As you'll hear him say here, he noticed a steep decline in happiness levels among his students, which tracks with the overall data on this front. And so he's written a book, I don't want to call it new, but it's his latest book, and it's called The Science of Happiness, Seven Lessons for Living Well. In this conversation, we talk about how do you define happiness? It's a pretty

1:27.5

slippery term, actually. How to be happy when you're in the middle of a shit show. How to shift from

1:32.4

being egocentric or self-focused to alicentric, meaning essentially interconnected. The impacts

1:39.2

of social isolation and how to avoid that. The challenge of optimism and how to overcome it and actually

1:45.0

boost your optimism quotient, finding a flow state through meditation, how to enhance your

1:50.2

social connections, where quote unquote true authentic happiness comes from, controlling your

1:56.2

attention and rejecting negative comparisons, the role of nature, and much more.

2:01.9

By the way, if you want to learn how to reduce your overthinking specifically,

2:05.8

which is a big problem for many of us, myself included,

2:08.1

if you want to learn how to turn down the volume on that,

2:10.0

we have a custom guided meditation for you,

2:13.3

specifically tailored to this episode.

2:15.7

It comes from our teacher of the month, Don Maricio.

2:18.5

Throughout this entire month, we're offering these meditations only to paid subscribers who sign up at

2:22.8

Dan Harris.com. The analogy we like to use is that you can think of this podcast as the lecture,

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