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🗓️ 20 November 2023
⏱️ 34 minutes
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0:00.0 | Hi besties. Welcome back to trying to care. If you're new here, hello, my name is Ashley. Thank you so much for clicking |
0:22.1 | on this episode and hanging out with me today. Trying not to care is basically my not so personal |
0:27.5 | diary. I also like to refer to Trinette to Care as mine and your therapy. Just a way to get my thoughts |
0:36.2 | out there, connect with all of you, and have you feel heard and |
0:40.0 | understood. Today's episode comes from a place of me reflecting and examining my own behavior, |
0:47.2 | especially in the past. Up until recently, like, up until like last year, I reeked of desperation. |
0:55.7 | Desperation basically is when you have no hope for an outcome to go the way that you wanted to, |
1:01.0 | and you'll literally do anything and everything to change that outcome. |
1:05.1 | I have acted out of desperation in so many different areas of my life, |
1:10.5 | whether it be in friendships, |
1:12.0 | relationships, even jobs. And when you're in the position of I am so desperate for this |
1:19.1 | thing to work out the way that I wanted to, you only have tunnel vision on making it work. |
1:25.2 | And you don't even realize that what you're doing is making the situation |
1:29.8 | worse. I look back at times where I acted out of desperation and I'm like, dude, just chill out. |
1:36.1 | Like if I just chilled out and let things happen the way they were supposed to happen, |
1:40.9 | the outcome probably would have ended up being better than it was. I was the one hurting |
1:45.8 | myself in the situation. Obviously other people hurt me as well, but I was making a shitty |
1:51.1 | situation worse. So today we're going to talk about all of that, talk about being desperate and |
1:55.7 | why you need to stop being desperate. Again, this is coming from a place of self-reflection. So when you hear me |
2:02.5 | say, stop being desperate, I'm not trying to be rude or make it seem like I'm above you or that |
2:08.1 | I've never been desperate because I definitely have been. This is coming from me talking about that |
2:14.1 | experience and why it's hurt me in the long run. In past relationships of mine, |
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