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Women of Impact

Still Single? 5 Brutal Dating Mistakes Even Smart Women Make Without Realizing It | Kendra G - PT 2

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Education, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Relationships, Health & Fitness

4.7657 Ratings

🗓️ 12 June 2025

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Picking up where they left off, Lisa and Kendra G dive even deeper into the lies women are told—and tell themselves—about love, relationships, and self-worth. Part 2 gets into the nitty-gritty of how to stop comparison, heal from toxic relationships, and become the kind of woman everyone wants to be around: truly confident, truly unshakeable. Kendra and Lisa tackle the hardest truths about being “too picky,” the myth that women aren’t “complete” until chosen, and how unrealistic expectations derail happiness. They also get vulnerable, discussing the aftermath of heartbreak, the slow erosion of self-esteem in bad relationships, and the moment-to-moment battles to refuse to lower your standards. Expect actionable wisdom on self-assessment, rebuilding after a breakup, and making sure your confidence is built on YOUR foundation—not someone else’s validation. Plus, a little fun as they talk about Kendra’s dating app and spicy new card game! SHOWNOTES 24:24 “Not complete until chosen”—the grand remix, choosing yourself 25:43 The myth of “never give up on someone” & what real love requires 26:41 Are you too picky? When preferences become obstacles to happiness 29:40 Men’s and women’s double standards in dating—and why they both count 34:51 Expectation vs. standards: Community voting on loyalty, trust, money, and more 36:54 How to assess your real dating pool and sexual market value 39:08 Giving men grace for vulnerability—hormones, self-esteem, and support in partnerships 41:42 Why your preference isn’t your worth (and neither is anyone else’s opinion) 46:24 The honesty trap: Why we say we want it, but can’t always handle the truth 49:01 The signature questions from Kendra’s show & the “three flaws” challenge 54:23 Stop giving wifely benefits to boyfriends: Knowing when you’re negotiating your worth 56:48 Navigating comparison, heartbreak, and rising after toxic relationships 59:32 How to remind yourself you’re worthy—no matter your relationship status or setbacks 1:07:32 Using disrespect as fuel for growth, and trusting YOUR own red flags 1:13:06 Redefining single: The battle for your life after breakup 1:14:19 Chanel bags don’t go on sale—why you shouldn’t discount yourself, either 1:15:35 Game time: Kendra’s card game and spicy honesty 1:17:00 Money, marriage, and what REALLY matters in partnership 1:18:44 Would you ever get married again? And laying down the shame around being single 1:19:58 Where to follow Kendra G and join the movement GUEST SOCIALS Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kendragmedia/YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@KendraGMediaApp & Website: https://kendrag.singles/ CHECK OUT OUR SPONSORS Vital Proteins: Get 20% off by going to ⁠https://www.vitalproteins.com⁠ and entering promo code WOI at check out.  BIOptimizers: Head to⁠ https://bioptimizers.com/impact ⁠and use code IMPACT for 10% off.  OneSkin: Get 15% off with code LISA at ⁠https://oneskin.co ⁠ Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial period at ⁠https://shopify.com/lisa⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Welcome back, Mahami. I'm Lisa Billu and this is Women of Impact and today in part two with Amida Frickin Powerhouse, the dating truth dropper and straight up force of freaking nature

1:04.6

Kendra G. Now guys, to be honest, this isn't just about relationships. She literally breaks down

1:10.7

how every single woman needs to build their self-worth.

1:13.6

It is literally a playbook on how to build your self-esteem and your self-worth.

1:17.8

So today, we go even deeper into the emotional pressure that so many women carry.

1:23.0

And what it actually looks like and what it takes to break that cycle, hold your boundaries

1:27.5

and still show up with softness, power and freaking bad-assery, while all being peaceful.

1:33.5

Now, guys, the reason why you follow women of impact is to build your tool belt.

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Some of these conversations are never going to do easy.

1:39.6

There is never going to be things that a guest always says that I'm going to freaking love.

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But you better believe the reason why I do this every single week is that we can wax on,

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wax off metaphorically karate kid if you've ever seen the movie.

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So we can improve.

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