Staying Positive When Dating Sucks
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 28 November 2023
⏱️ 61 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by Dani Kravette, a longtime friend and 27 year old navigating modern dating in NYC. We chat about being a “boyfriend girl,” feeling surrounded by friends in relationships, and debate if someone’s reason for ending things actually matters. We dissect her Hinge profile, chat about not drinking on dates, discuss her dealbreakers, and cackle over her hilarious dating stories.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:04.8 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back to another episode of Seeing Other People. |
| 0:10.1 | Together, we're navigating modern dating alongside experts and real-life daters who are sharing their stories. |
| 0:16.0 | Don't have a date for tonight? No problem. Come learn, laugh, and maybe even cry along with us as we navigate the dating |
| 0:22.3 | scene together. Okay. Well, hello. Do you go by Danny or Danielle now? So I go by Danny, but in |
| 0:29.2 | work life, I try to go by Danielle, but it doesn't stick. Who are you today? Today I'm Danny, |
| 0:34.8 | full-blown Danny. Danny Cravette. Danny Cravette. Welcome to seeing other people. |
| 0:38.3 | Thank you for having me. I'm very excited to be here. I'm so excited. Yeah, I tried to go by Danielle because it sounds more professional and whatnot. But then people get to know me and they're like, no, you're fully a Danny. I don't even know what that means, but it just sticks more. It's so funny because I was thinking about that. I was like, oh, I don't know how I'm supposed to introduce her. |
| 0:54.9 | No, Danny's perfect. |
| 0:55.9 | I've been a Danny my whole life. |
| 0:57.0 | You have been. |
| 0:57.6 | You have been. You have been. So backstory, we go way back. Way, way back. We grew up together. Yes. A few year, two year age difference. Yep. Two year age difference. But we always knew each other. Yeah, always. And we were like definitely friends in high school too oh yeah and it just shows you gotta be |
| 1:11.2 | nice to everyone because now we reconnected yeah post college yeah we did and now we're working |
| 1:15.6 | yeah we also went to college together yeah true yeah I forgot about that oh my god small world yeah |
| 1:20.6 | yeah so okay you're here you're 27 27 New York City living in the city single single single single pringle how's that going it's good I I feel like |
| 1:31.3 | I really define like the and I don't want to define myself as like a single girl because that's not |
| 1:36.8 | what I am like I literally used to be called a boyfriend girl back in the day in college I went from |
| 1:41.5 | my boyfriend to boyfriend to boyfriend which was not a good thing looking about not. Not a good thing, not a bad thing. I don't regret anything. But I think post |
| 1:49.0 | college, I was like, okay, this is my time to really learn how to be on my own. You know, I was always |
| 1:54.4 | very reliant on a boyfriend and those emotions. And I always thought I like loved myself and was |
| 2:00.3 | confident. But then once I was |
| 2:01.6 | single and in my 20s, it was a whole new level of like learning about myself and being quote |
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