Welcome to the to love honor and vacuum start your engines

podcast. I'm Sheila from to love honor and vacuum.com where I blog all the time about marriage and sex from a Christian point of view

And I've been doing these podcasts for about a year now and recently some people have started asking me to do one for men because I talk mostly to women and so on the last

podcast of every month we are dedicating it to the guys and this is our third Start Your Engines podcast and I am so glad that you have joined us.

Before we get started, I just want to thank Aspen for a comment that came in about the last podcast.

She says, great podcast, Sheila, I appreciate that you don't man-bash in this and

that you see men's intentions in the best possible light it makes it so

shareable and thank you and I hope that you all do share these podcasts I hope

I don't man- man bash and the one coming

up too because my intention is never to make men seem bad, although we are going to be talking

about some difficult things this podcast. it really is just to try to help

us understand each other and and so I hope that that is what we're going to

accomplish as well and I just encourage you you know if you're getting something

out of this podcast there's not a lot of really open

teaching on sex in the church and so if you appreciate this please spread the word

give it a five-star rating on iTunes or Stitcher or Spotify wherever you listen to it, give it a review and just help get the word out because that gets other people tuning in to hear some good information about sex and not just some of the really creepy stuff that we hear out in the world.

So thank you very much, Aspen.

I'm bringing my husband Keith on for this because hey if we're going to talk to guys let's get a guy.

Yep. And you're a guy.

I fit that bill. Excellent. And you're a guy.

I fit that bill.

Excellent. I'm very happy about that.

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