Welcome to the Start Your Engines Podcast's podcast. I'm Sheila Ray Magwar from To Love

Honor and Vacuum.com where we like to talk about how to make sex and

marriage a passionate

adventure and not just a giant to-do list and on the last Thursday of every

month as always I dedicate my podcast more to the men who listen and read the

blog at to loveon and vacuum.

And I welcome my husband on so hey Keith

hey guys we are gonna talk libido and frequency and what the big deal is anyway

sure because I think a lot of people think it's a big deal.

Oh yeah, I think libido differences are a huge problem.

Huge deal.

You love the edges.

So I'm going to put you on the spot here because you love it when I do that.

Oh yeah, right. And a while ago we were sitting in the hot tub and

we were having a discussion about what the average frequency was of a young couple and

you didn't believe me. No I didn't know I was a lot higher. Okay so what did you think what

did you think I thought it was like three times a week yeah average and I was saying

it's slightly more than once and you're like no way no way and so you got at your

phone and you do what everyone does which is you googled it and you found out that

yeah you're right yeah the average frequency is a little over once a week and I think

before we talk about libido differences normally I don't like answering the

question what is normal amount of frequency because I kind of feel like what's

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