Welcome to the Girl On Top, Shallon XO Podcast. I'm your host, Shallon Lester, and you

might know me from my YouTube channel, where I analyze several relationships and scandals

for the lessons we can take into our own lives. But here on the podcast, I answer the best

questions you submitted over the past week. Got a love quandary? Head to my website, shallonlester.com

to get connected, and also shop my merch and take some fun quizzes. Be sure to rate and

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YouTube for four new videos a week. Welcome back to the podcast, Shallon Gators. This week,

we're going to talk about friends and frenemies, and when to let people go, how to do it, and

how to get clear with ourselves about why they're in our lives to begin with. Is it that they're

positively contributing, or are we letting the past inform the present in a way that isn't very

healthy? So our mantra this week is going to be two words, spring cleaning. The land is

thawing. The vaccines are getting administered. My new phrase for the spring is Vaxed and Waxed

Impact. Vaxed Waxed Impact, baby. We're going to get, we're going to get ready to go and be healthy.

We're going to get ready to go at the salon. We're going to get packed, and we're going to maybe

go on some trips. We're going to take some emotional trips into different aspects of our lives,

new levels of ourselves. We're just ready to get out there, right? But look, there's nothing worse

than that, you know, you got the spring fever, the warmth is in the air, and you open your closet,

and you're just like, oh, God, what is this hellscape of puffy jackets and crappy sweatsuit combos

from Target. I'm talking to myself here. I just want to start fresh, right? And what we've

been dealing with with this pandemic is the opportunity to really take a look at who's contributing

positively in our lives and who isn't. So this is our mantra, okay? We're going to roll our shoulders

back. We're going to take that deep breath. And you know, when you take that deep breath, you might

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