From San Diego, California, this is the one extraordinary marriage show where being busy is overdone,

romancing is fun, and scheduling sex that's taken the guesswork out of wondering when you're going to get some.

I'm Tony Delorenzo, your co-host with my beautiful

wife, Elisa, from coast to coast and around the world. Thank you for joining us. It's time to talk sex,

love and commitment.

Give us a call at 858, 876, 5663.

That's 858, 8 slate, it's a brand new year.

There's something magical about a new year about starting off and

just kind of looking into that like like just this great unknown of all these things that can unravel and I want

you to think of this quote this year from and I apologize to all of our French

listeners in advance because I may not pronounce this correctly from Antoine

de Saint Zupre. It says love does not consist in gazing at each other but in

looking in the same direction. And first off I can't believe 2013 is done.

Wow that just flew by.

Yeah I remember when I was a kid it always seemed like years went by fast.

But I feel like sometimes, too, as we're getting older, you know, and so what we're going to talk about,

this is going to be another one of those little vignettes.

It's a vignette one. It's a vignette. So happy New Year's

Eve, happy New Year's 2014. I hope I have to tell a funny New Year story

real quick. This is just going to add a little bit to the vignette.

I already know which one it is. Well of course you do because it's our only New York story.

So Tony and I have been together for 19 years and actually as we're pre-recording this I am in Kenya while you all

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