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Stay True with Madison Prewett Troutt

Spiritual Manipulation and Discernment with Lisa Harper

Stay True with Madison Prewett Troutt

Madison Prewett Troutt

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.83K Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2025

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to another episode of Stay True Podcast! This week, Madi sits down with bestselling author, speaker, Bible teacher, and podcast host Lisa Harper to talk about some of the most misunderstood—and often unspoken—realities of the Christian walk: church hurt, spiritual manipulation, and how to hear God’s true voice in the middle of noise, confusion, and pain. In this episode, Madi and Lisa unpack how to discern the difference between God’s leading and the enemy’s lies, how to identify unhealthy patterns in ourselves and others, and how to move from a mindset rooted in self-protection to a posture of surrender and trust in God. This is an invitation to heal, to grow, and to listen again—to the only voice that matters.

As always, make sure to stay you and stay true! 

Questions/topics discussed and answered:
-How to tell the difference between conviction and manipulation
-What spiritual manipulation can look like even from trusted leaders
-What would you say to someone who is deeply wounded from church hurt?
-Rebuilding your trust in God after church hurt
-What wise, Spirit-led community actually looks like—and how to find it

Helpful Resources:
Dare To Be True: Defeat The Lies That Bind You and Live Out The Truth That Frees You by Madison Prewett Troutt: https://a.co/d/gdfpHX5

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Transcript

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0:00.0

What would you say to those who have been hurt by the church or hurt by a Christian leader?

0:05.0

Relationships, man, they are the most glorious thing, but they're risky.

0:09.0

And wounds come with relationships.

0:11.0

What do you do in a situation where you know you are called to submit to leadership,

0:15.0

but you know maybe they're not submitted to the leadership of God?

0:18.0

If somebody uses the Bible to shame you, they're taking

0:21.7

out of context. Amen. Truth is convicting, but it's not shaming. How can you grow in spiritual

0:27.9

discernment and spiritual maturity to know this is what God is calling me to do? This is where God's

0:32.2

voice is leading me, even if those around me don't understand and agree with it. Be careful to anyone who says honor me. Jesus is my Lord and Master. No pastor is supposed to be your Lord and Master. And I have a lot of friends who've said, I'm backing up. I'm too disappointed. I've had too much church hurt. You know what? If you need to take a breather, take a breather, but don't walk away from the body of Christ. You will not,

0:56.0

I don't think, have abundant life if you try to live it independently. She says, I'm so sorry.

1:01.2

I just got a big glob of snot in your hair. What do you say to that?

1:16.5

What's up, guys? Welcome back to another episode of Stay True podcast. I'm your host,

1:22.9

Madison Pruitt Trout, and I'm in the podcast studio with someone that I have watched from afar and been so inspired by someone who honestly challenges me so much of my faith, but also will leave me

1:28.6

belly laughing every time I listen to a sermon or a podcast from her. So I'm so excited for you guys

1:35.1

to hear from the one and only Lisa Harper. You've made me grins. So already my cheeks are cramping.

1:40.8

This is going to be a good day. You guys, I'm so excited about today's conversation about what we're talking about, but also that you guys, if you haven't listened to Lisa Harper, you're going to be obsessed with her after this episode. But she's written over 15 books. She is a speaker, an author, and also has her own podcast called Back Porch Theology. And I think we all need some Back porch theology in our life. A hundred percent.

2:02.0

You know, we were talking about how you came up with a name for your podcast. And we were just

2:06.6

talking about, you hear the word theology and it sounds like old men in corner offices. Yeah,

2:11.2

super academic. And I thought, you know, you break down the word theology. The original Greek terms

2:16.1

are Theos, refers to God,

2:18.1

logos, conversations. So at its core, theology is conversations about God. And I thought, I don't

2:23.9

want to do front porch theology because, you know, in the South, we kind of keep our front

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