Relationship Red Flags with Kait and JJ Tomlin

Stay True with Madison Prewett Troutt

Madison Prewett Troutt

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.8 • 3K Ratings

🗓️ 11 August 2025

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

Welcome back to Stay True Podcast! This week, Madi and Grant are joined by Kait and JJ Tomlin—relationship coaches, podcast hosts, and powerful voices on Christian dating—for a fun and honest conversation about how to date God’s way in a world that often gets it wrong. If you want to know if you're ready to date, what to actually look for in a godly spouse, and the red flags you can’t afford to ignore, then this episode is for YOU! This episode covers how to date with purpose, why character matters more than chemistry, and how to walk in confidence when it comes to relationships. Whether you're single, dating, or somewhere in between, this episode will give you truth, clarity, and hope to pursue love the way God intended.
As always, stay you and stay true!

Questions/topics discussed and answered:
- What is your dating personality type?
- Red flags to watch out for
- How to know if you are ready to start dating
- What to look for in a spouse
- Can you pray together in dating?
- Can a girl pursue a guy?

Helpful Resources:
Heart of Dating’s Dating Personality Quiz:https://www.heartofdating.com/quiz
The Love Everybody Wants by Madison Prewett Troutt: https://a.co/d/36EkEhT
Dare To Be True: Defeat The Lies That Bind You and Live Out The Truth That Frees You by Madison Prewett Troutt: https://a.co/d/gdfpHX5
Stay True Website: https://www.staytruepodcast.com
Stay True Merch: https://www.staytruepodcast.com/merch
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Transcript

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0:00.0	If you're getting married and I ask you, hey, what red flags do they have?
0:03.5	And you look at me and you say, none.
0:05.0	Do not get married because you have like no idea what you're signing up for. 80% of guys are just waiting for a big open door. My favorite way to do it is send a birdie, aka a wingwoman. I'd still want to know, like, why'd you go on that show? So was that a red flag or did you welcome that? Um, so he broke up with me.
0:01.8	The church has never been as single as it is today.
0:04.9	I think we're on that show. So was that a red flag or did you welcome that? Um, so he broke up with me.
0:21.3	The church has never been as single as it is today. I think we're pickier than ever before.
0:26.3	Culturally, like marriage has just been less appealing than it ever has been before.
0:29.7	Can the girl make the first move or do guys like the ability to pursue and is that what's most
0:35.6	important? Right now, 2025, what are y'all seeing that can maybe help people that are going, what's the trends right now? On our first in-person date, we went to In-N-N-Out and the way he ate his burger and licked his fingers, like, you guys, I just had the egg. He had me eating all day. That is so out of context.
0:55.6	There's not a nice way to eat it in an hour.
0:57.9	They forgot napkins, right?
0:58.4	Yeah.
0:58.9	Of course.
0:59.7	No, no, they did not.
1:05.2	What's up, guys?
1:09.2	Welcome back to another episode of Stay True podcast. I'm your host, Madison Pruitt
1:13.9	Trout. Hosting with me today, I have my handsome husband. It's really good to be here. Yep,
1:18.4	yep, yep, yep, yep, really good. And we have some of our close friends. Oh, man. In the podcast.
1:23.5	Who's here? Kate and JJ Tomlin. Hey, guys. Let's go. This is so cool.
1:24.8	Welcome. Thanks for having us. I can't believe it took us this long. I know. It took us a long time coming. Yeah. But we also just discovered they haven't asked us to be on theirs. No, they have. I think we got sick. Remember that way back when? Yes. Oh, this is awkward. This is, yeah, we got so, I think they were supposed to
1:26.3	get.
1:27.6	Yeah.
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