Sometimes the Opposite of What Feels “Important” Is the Exact Reset You Need

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Business, Entrepreneurship

4.6 • 2.8K Ratings

🗓️ 28 October 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Sometimes the breakthrough you’re chasing won’t come from working harder, it’ll come from stepping away. In this episode, Chris and I share how one spontaneous fall weekend in Pennsylvania turned into a full reset, and why pattern interrupts are non-negotiable for growth. We share how doing the opposite of what feels important actually solves your biggest problems, and the three ways we intentionally reset while still moving our business forward. Get ready to break your own pattern, because sometimes the best business strategy isn’t more doing, it’s more being. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS The story behind our impromptu fall getaway in Pennsylvania. Why your biggest business breakthroughs happen outside your normal routine. How to create strategic pattern interrupts before burnout hits. The 3-part formula for a true reset. How to surround yourself with high-level people who expand your ideas and energy. Lessons from our Elite Mastermind on in-person connections. RESOURCES Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow Chris: @chriswharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

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0:00.0	I know that this is such an ingredient that is missing in so many people's lives to have enough time in your life and in your schedule that we don't normally plan in to truly drop in with other people to get to the root of what we're really feeling and what we're really thinking.
0:17.5	And that's the only way to find your answers is to get out of that cycle of what you're in.
0:28.3	And we're back with another episode of He Said, She Said. And I've got to paint this beautiful picture.
0:33.8	So we were just sitting outside by this beautiful roaring fire in the backyard in
0:41.3	chilly, swickly Pennsylvania.
0:44.3	It's right outside of Pittsburgh with some of our best friends in the world, the Hannafords,
0:50.3	and my brother Nick.
0:51.3	And we all had coffee in hand and music on and there's fires going inside
0:57.3	and there's fires going outside and it's about 42 degrees and all the leaves of like red
1:03.3	and orange and yesterday like that's not the best part yesterday we took their 56 tea bird out
1:09.8	to go look at fall colors and all the beautiful old
1:12.8	estates here and then we saw this really cool what was this this annual hunting lord blessing of the hounds
1:20.0	and the horses for the hunt so picture old school east coast everybody hunting on horses in all the
1:26.6	garb and the lead horsemen in the big red
1:29.8	outfit and all the hounds that go chasing out in the beginning of the, we got to see them
1:34.7	do the blessing of that and then the start of it. I mean, this has been right out of a lifetime
1:40.7	movie about fall. Now, to clarify, it's a fox hunt, but they just let the foxes
1:45.9	go. They just cornered them now. I wanted to know. I was like, what are we hunting? What is this?
1:51.2	But it was so cool. It was so much fun. And we just want to share the importance of pattern interrupt.
1:57.7	Yes. Because it's so easy to get inside of your head and your problems in your
2:03.2	life and just get in this inertia and feel like you can't get out or have the solutions to the
2:09.7	problems. And so often when we can do something that feels opposite of what you feel is
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