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🗓️ 10 June 2024
⏱️ 6 minutes
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0:00.0 | Hi my name is Louis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show. |
0:07.0 | I'm curious Matthew with you when a woman has gone through your workshop or maybe watch your |
0:16.2 | content or you know been a part of your community for a while and then they say okay I'm |
0:20.7 | ready to go out there and meet a guy and there seems like a really healthy, |
0:23.7 | a really healthy, good kind, compassionate, you know, value-driven, spiritual, you know, healthy conscious |
0:29.7 | man in front of me and for whatever reason she's unable to be excited about that. |
0:36.8 | What is that saying about that woman in your mind if she is unable to lean into the green flags of a healthy potential mate in front of her. |
0:45.8 | I think it's usually a sign that for anyone that men or women are like that we're not |
0:51.9 | truly putting our well-being first. |
0:54.7 | We think the source of our worth is outside of us. |
0:58.6 | And we see someone who looks like the kind of equivalent of a VIP nightclub or a VIP wait list. |
1:07.0 | There is an instinct we all have. |
1:09.2 | You walk past 10 restaurants and one of them's super busy and they say we can see you in three |
1:15.4 | hours. There's an instinct that says that you know this like maybe this is the |
1:20.4 | one I want to eat at you might have passed 10 places already but the one with the three |
1:24.4 | hour wait list there's something about that that makes us go maybe we can hang around for three |
1:31.2 | hours maybe it is that good and the problem is that |
1:35.0 | in love and dating the people who make it feel like there's a three hour wait list |
1:40.8 | or a six-month wait list or that they have all the options in the world. |
1:47.2 | They give the impression of being the best meal in town, but it doesn't necessarily |
1:51.9 | add up. There's a lot of ways to create that illusion. I could not text you back for three days and and if you're the person who buys into the illusion that if I'm inconsistent with my |
2:05.2 | communication that must make me more valuable, then I can raise my value not by being any more |
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