All right, so you found out shit that you had no business knowing about.

I hate this for you. We've all been there, man. It'd be like that. Sometimes you find shit out

and they're like, oh, this is some bad boy information. What do I do with this?

And you know what's worse?

It's not even what you found out is how you found out.

Because more time, you go through that phone and you see the man there you didn't even know.

You're like, oh, is this, oh, is this how you feel?

Oh, is this really what you like? Yeah. Oh, okay.

Because, you know, for a while, I'm not going to lie, I have been on the fence about going

through men's phones. For a while, my perspective, for the most part, was, I don't really believe in going through men's phones.

Like, I just feel like privacy is privacy.

Like, if he's lying, you're going to know any way from how he acts.

And I just think that going through the phone is a step too far because

but then my mind has changed my mind has changed from seeing when women have gone through men's

phones and they have seen the type of shit these men be watching that they call porn

or they just see shit in the messages and they're like

okay

this isn't how I expected to find out I'd be getting cheated on

but it's the thing about going through phones and like finding shit out that you weren't

ready to know.

My perspective still stands in the sense that if you're going to go through a man's phone,

prepare to see the worst but prepare to also act on what you've seen.

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